Adopt the idea that you need to be content(B), with what is in your reality... see: in the other meaning!!! Be content(B), be part of the data-set in your reality, complete with all your honest feelings and thoughts about it ( simply: more relevant data!).
How?
It begins with actively reminding yourself of the (positive) meaning this whole dataset, with you in it, has in your eyes. That means answering the question:
“How can being here, in amongst this set of data, actually been viewed as a good thing?”
The point of this part of the whole process here is to acknowledge that you got yourself here as a result of all the choices you made before today. There must have been good reasons for choosing these elements, otherwise you wouldn’t have chosen them. Even if you believe it was your loved-ones, teachers or society choosing these things ‘ for you’, there are reasons why you are invested in these very same things too.
“I am here, in amongst this lot, because it provide(s/d) me with the joy of .......”
That is the first step to happiness, like content ( B) is only a step into becoming information ( that selection of data that is meaningful for the end-user).
Only looking at what is missing is just as ineffective as only focussing on the blessings.
Having both sides in mind, is allowing yourself to shift into the position with much more creative power, you are shifting now from the perspective of the end-user to the perspective of the creator.
As long a s you are confusing yourself with yourself, there is not much either of you sees they can structurally and meaningfully do.
Confusing?
Bear with me a while longer, I’ll explain that some more, comparing this with similar processes you are probably more familiar with: internet websites.
Only those who log-into the database as a creator, can make any really significant structural changes to its structure and programs.
Yes, you are allowed to create your own account, change the look and feel, add information in your profile. Fine, jolly nice. You can feel very creative with the options given.
But you can’t add functionality to it that Google, Amazon or Facebook haven’t allowed you to.
Try changing a price for a book, try influencing the order Google shows results to others, try altering something on somebody else’s Facebook page.
It is not happening through the front door... you don’t have the creative rights to do so.
They don’t need to leave their chair for it, they can use the same device for it... they just need to login differently.
There, in that position, you can see what is presented. You can have an opinion on what you like and what you don’t like. You might even have suggestions what would please you more.
However, unless you personally get ‘in’-volved with the fields where all the data are controlled and handled, you very objectively can’t see all the options to make it better. You don’t have access to the control panels of all of it and so you can’t make sustainable meaningful changes with structural integrity.
It has everything to do with the fact that you are not, under the bonnet, logged in as (co-)creator, who knows why this structure was made, knows the reasons why this composition is arranged like this, in favour of other possibilities.
A creator also knows all the consequences of changing ‘ one thing’ somewhere deep in the structure. It often has consequences on many levels. As simple as it may seem on the users-end...... those structural changes need consideration and handling with care.
But if all the end-users complain structurally about something and give signals that they need different things, the (co-)creator is obviously more than willing to be at service and re-creates.
A (co-)creator does the necessary to evolve the system from 6.1 in to 6.2, or revolutionizes it in jumping from 6.2 to 7.0, if more drastic changes are necessary to be made. Usually, after testing the new routines, before putting them life, by the way.
Being in it now, acknowledging you are the creator, under the bonnet of the meaningful infrastructure of the data, you are now in a position to look around and see (and adjust) the order in it.
This is where I have to put in a comment on my use of the deliberate use of the word co-creation . Usually (unless you are a hermit, living entirely away from everybody else) you’ve got various plug-ins running in your system. Pieces of programming more people are involved in (co-workers, partners, friends). Even though you are a co-creator of those programs, they’ll not appreciate it much if you make fundamental changes tothat without them being in the loop of your actions, preferably acting with their consent on the proposed changes.
End-user perspective: looking at what is going on in your life from a distance, based on it's appearances. Not in a position to change it's structure. |
Content (A): Logged in as being part of the content (B) Being aware of appearances as well as positive reasons for this (own) co-creation |
Centered: in the content heart of control |
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