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18 Jul 2015

Tuning into Joy

It put a smile on your face ( hopefully) the cat and dog analogies in the two previous blog posts.
If you wonder:” How can  this food for thought be used practically in every day life?” .... in this blog post I’m going to share my ideas on how you can implements a couple of understandings in a simple way.

Let me first summarise the understandings I am sticking in the mix here. They all got introduced in earlier posts.

Summary of insights:

I gave an illustration of how being a team with your soul guides you to go out into the world of energy and enjoy yourself with it.

In the world of energy, you’ll encounter other living beings and you’ll have interactions with them. Some briefly, only once.... others more frequently and longer.

We-fields develop, you are relating and teaming up, investing energy in mutual goals and purposes, no matter how small ( exchanging 10 tomatoes for €1,50, just once) or how big ( raising a child, setting up and running  a multi millions business).

Every being: (dynamically vibrating energy pattern... DVEP)  has a soul of itself.

Coming full circle on the analogy: you could say that every we-field has its  own guide dog too, to help guide this (collective) being as a whole. (*)

Looking at the e-scape of a collective ( soul level)  a collective thrives when for all parts these three elements are present, regularly, consistently, harmoniously, dynamically:
  1. Continuity of a structure to play in, work from
    (a home, a comfort zone, with recognisable characteristics like  shape, rhythm, flow)
  2. Inspiration to follow
    ( new interesting influences, of a high(er) quality , more complexion, with (more) depth to it  relief variety and a reasonable amount of challenge, the instructions on the Divine Blueprint)
  3. Express itself to its highest joy and be followed
    ( initiating a change, taking the lead in a dynamic system, feel the response of other beings tuning into its highest joy)

Practical option for implementation

Up to speed, now. You are interested in your practical everyday life issues being solved in a simple practical way?
Good News! That is what this blog post is about!

There is a very down to earth ( natural) way to look at this e-scaping and deal pragmatically with it. Almost no effort for you and great results for everybody involved. 80/20 thinking in full swing.

Before you get all excited... I have to warn you:
“O yeah.... by the way...... most people find this extremely difficult!”

It is called ‘ tuning into Joy’.

It is deeply founded in not only acknowledging, but also using (to the advantage of all involved), the understanding that every single being in this world has the soul need to share its highest Joy and be followed.
How can you be a part in that? Indeed, the verb here is ‘ to follow’.

Why ‘ most people’ find this sooooooo difficult, is because they think ‘following’  has to do with adopting opinions or habits  or rules into your own precious belief system and routines and has a permanent, conditional character.  And if the assessment is made that what is presented by somebody else is not 100% comfortably compatible, it should best get100% rejected.

The first step to take here is to consider if I speak of ‘ following’  here, I am talking about energy and  energy patterns in e-scapes.
That has very little to do with the “OMG ...if I follow this person, my belief system gets changed into something unknown that I am not 100% comfortable with”  interpretation of ‘ to follow’ .

I assure you, with ‘ tuning into joy’, you can very comfortably, have it all:
You can leave your belief system 100% intact if you so desire, fulfil somebody else’s soul need to share its highest joy with you following their energetically lead and meanwhile, on the fly(!),  fulfil your own soul need to be inspired too.

Where?  When?  With whom?

You can do this with anybody you encounter, but I recommend doing it especially with the people you spend regularly time with in the real world, in the here and now of your own natural reality.
In cyberspace, as much other things it has to offer, it doesn’t work, because all this ‘ tuning into Joy’ is an interplay between your real body-mind-soul and the vibes around you, your e-scape, the world of energy.
In cyberspace, the vibes around you a not playing this game... your computer is transmitting a steady beat on energy level, usually not on frequency that is in the Joyful range of possibilities.

Why?

This habit, habit of ‘ tuning into Joy’ is crucial to the happy and confident sustainable development of lively harmonious communities.

How?  

It is, in its essence, super simple...
This one line is describing the whole procedure in all detail:
When somebody is enjoying himself/ herself.... you tune in. You give open attention.

You don’t have to say a word,  just watch, listen, feel, observe, register, give atention.....

In giving this attention, your auto-tuning system will, at quite high speed, automatically (!) tune you up to the same joyfull frequencies, to be an harmony with it.

Unless of course, you are actually tuning in onto your narrating voice in your mind and its opinions about what is there and what you should be doing instead of investing time in this... If that gets more attention than the actual events... your auto-tuning system will harmonise your energy patterns with that, because your auto-tuning system harmonises it energy patterns with anything that gets your real  attention. If you catch yourself ‘ blurring’, ask yourself in your mind:” Where is the joy in this?” or “ What is the joy in this?”, simply choosing that your one desire is to tune into joy.

What happens ‘ under the bonnet’?

Under the bonnet, the other beings soul senses that its signal is being received: its joy is shared and it is being followed. In it’s e-cape it experiences that element 3 is present and that is an extra joy, adding more depth and relief to its energy landscape, right here, right now.

It’s vibration goes up a level more and since you are tune into his or her vibration, you are automatically tuning up too, also experiencing the joyful composition in energy.

Yes, there is the possibility that this being ( a puppy, a cat, a child, a spouse, a neighbour, a stranger) would like to share the activity it is involved in with you, show you things, explain you things about this great joy.

This is where ‘ most people’ think they are at a loss if they engage with this. On the short term, they’ll lose the time now spend and there are better things to do ( usually on a computer, or somewhere else, with somebody else) and on the long term, this creature is likely to  turn more frequently to them for  attention, like to grow a habit that involves this specific activity and it has to learn that .... and then a summary out of the belief system follows on what makes this being a good independent citizen.

And there is truth in that and so you may want to think about how you can confidently and harmoniously deal with that, if that would happen.
Because  at this moment in time, if anybody does fulfil the soul need in somebody to be tuned into and be followed, energetically in joy,  chances are this being will return to this person as a camel to an oasis. It is a soul need, remember, so you’ll go where you can find it fulfilled. In an energetical  desert, oasis a few and far between.
I may write another blog post as some point, to share some practical ideas on this.

Back now to looking at the positive effects of tuning into somebody else’s joy.

On the short term, you are experiencing the vibes of Joy effortlessly, surfing on your auto-tuning system, which boosts your energy system with turbo fuel. With that in your system you can get much more done, later in the day, when this interplay has ended. You’ll be far more effective.

In the long term, you are contributing to the happiness and confidence of another being that its vibes of joy are worthwhile tuning into and it will produce more of that as a result. It will also have stored energetically another example in its here and now community how easy and rewarding it is to tune into each other and that there is only joy to be increased when this is done. It’ll return the joy of it, if it isn’t to you, than it is to another. Another in the community, you might encounter one day when you are enjoying yourself and (s)he stops to tune into you for a minute.

Sounds appealing? Worth investing some of your energy in?
Be aware.....
We seem to have collectively decided that tuning into and sharing joy is a hazard to society.
Sharing misery, that is the way to go. We give collectively more attention to what is painful, than to what is joyful ( watch the news, read the newspapers, follow the average conversation in the streets where mainly ‘ problems’ get discussed, illnesses, political and economical difficulties and conflicts.)
We are actively spending more time tuning into what does NOT work very well. Hoping for the best, hoping that that makes a significant positive difference to our world. ( if there was a sign for sour indignant  irony, it would be placed in capitals)

And don’t; get me wrong here. I am not advocating to turn a blind eye to things that don’t work very well!
I am advocating to stop turning a blind eye to joy (and creating more misery in the slipstream of that).

More misery?
Apart from knowing that you are resonating in harmony with anything you lay your attention on, thanks to your auto tuning system, so you are actively down-lifting yourself in that instant, there are some longer term consequences to consider too.

For instance: how and where is an inspirational leader of a community ( a family, an enterprise, a country) ever going to find the confidence that what (s)he enjoys as worthwhile is precious to others too if nobody ever can be bothered to tune into her singing a song, telling a story, making a drawing, brushing a cat, building a Lego-construction, comb a beach, built a tree-house......
Does (s)he  learn that from ;” Not now, honey, I’m busy!”
You may think this being  doesn’t know what you are preferring to give attention to and can wait for the moment when you’ve got ‘ time’.

But this being is looking at you for guidance and input, you are one of its inspirational examples on how living in this community is done, right now. You are an energy emitting being in its e-scape.
And you may be not be aware of the interplay in the world of energy ( focussed on something else), not allowing your auto-tuning system to tune into (his/her) joy......but his/her auto tuning system detects without fails the vibrations you seem to enjoy, simply by giving you attention, because you are resonating with what you enjoy more than the joy right here, right now......lower vibes, the vibes of ...... lack of time, pain and misery.

Remember... being followed in your most joyful vibes is a soul need, not just a hobby.

If you wonder why your child/animal/partner is suddenly chewing the carpet, having tantrums, is frequently diseased, crying over nothing, rolling over the floor as if the end of the world is near....... and you know on some level the answer is: to get your attention.....
That may be s SIGNAL. You have probably missed about 100 opportunities to tune into joy in your own community, voluntarily under harmonious conditions, not costing you much time and lifting you up the process.
Now, this being in your community needs to know that it is still capable of taking the lead where somebody will have to follow in the vibes, it will create a symphony of the vibes you seem to prefer in your world: misery and pain.
And you’ll follow, because this seems important to you!

And so it is... you have fulfilled a soul need for somebody in your community. Finally, you have tuned into the vibes of this being taking the energetical lead in this e-scape.

But it could, 100 times before this ' crisis' , have been so much more joyous and uplifting with a butterfly effect on the whole community, spreading the good vibes.
Trust me, if the camel knows that there is a bucket a day to drink, it does not take more than it actually needs. It is only when the hump is emptied under a certain level, that it desperately needs an oasis to fill up, no matter how polluted the water is, in order to survive and.... it takes a lot of time to fill up again.

So, even if you only tune into somebody’s  joy 20 times out of the 100 opportunities, it gets satisfied with one small amounts of time at the time.
All it needs is to have updates on the experience that others tune into his joy, to build confidence upon that he or she is able to take the lead in providing what is needed.

What do you need more of, joy or misery. What does your community need more of, joy or misery?

Small effort, great, multiplied joy, for everybody involved.

In some other blog post I’ll zoom in too ‘recognising joy’.
We have collectively removed ourselves so far from it, we hardly recognise its myriad of forms and shapes it can have.


(*)
As interesting as I find flying and exploring the angle of tuning into the guide dog, the soul of a collective, I chose that this would not be the main topic of this blog post.
But as an afterthought, I felt the desire to share some more thought on this.

Where most people already have trouble sensing ( let alone following) the vibes from their own guide dog/soul..... the concept of a collective guide dog/ soul that is helping all involved in the community with guidance, to develop into the direction of its Divine Blueprint, if they would care to follow its lead.....may be a concept that is ‘ far fetched’
Although I realise:..... most religions and spiritual teachings seem to agree that such ethereal guiding being(s) exist ....
I also realise, most religious people wouldn’t be happily impressed with picturing the force they worship as a guide dog. It’s a good thing it is all just an analogy ( smiley face).


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