Fluidity between fields.

In my former blog post, I mentioned for the first time a we-field and a me-field.

I realised, fairly soon after writing it, that it I wanted to clarify something very specific with mentioning those fields.
To my understanding, those are fluid concepts, with no intrinsically built-in sharp boundaries.
They are energy fields, fields containing spans of attention, closer to being 'gas' than ' grass'.

Writing about it in the way I did in my previous post, (being ‘ in’ or  ‘out’) had the purpose to help raise awareness on the influence your actual position in relation to another has, to the likely effects of your actions.

But if you enjoy the tree of your belief system being shaken a little bit, then may I stir up some paradoxal particles of information into a possible confusing mix.

If you don’t like playing and juggling with paradoxes, or having your belief system challenged..... maybe best to skip this article.

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Those still reading:

I already indicated at the end of the article that you can be ‘ in’ and ‘ out’ at the same time! Because every person is  always a part of the collective consciousness ( a we-field) even if you are completely focussed on your me-field.

But it is also possible to have two people in one me-field, without it becoming a we-field ( as in: both are doing the mining).

How?
The me-fields is the place where a person minds their own experiences and organises them in a meaningful order. If one person invites another person into that (usually called intimate) space, it is explicitly not the idea that the other is there to actively mine and re-organise or chance anything at all. That is there you sole task (soul task), the organising, choosing, giving meaning is done alone.
But when you are doing that mining in soil ( the mental garden with soil coming from the compost heap  of your own individual human experiences) you can find emotionally ‘ charged things’ coming to the surface. Mines, buried in ( inner) conflicts from the past, that haven’t been discharged in a safe way.
Sometimes , you are just happy if somebody you trust stays close when you stick such a mine carefully in a ‘sand heap’ in a corner of your me-field.  A person who doesn’t panic in a reflex of defence, throwing some more mines when yours blows, if it blows at all.
Or it is nice to talk about your mining activities in your garden and tell about the arrangements you made, how they are panning out, growing and what plan(t)s you have for the future development of your me-field.
The other is guest, visiting, listening, being... without actually ‘doing’. Giving attention, allowing you some time to focus entirely on what is going on in your garden, without actually being alone. Knowing that you  are safe in doing so.

This goes always on invitation and it is an honour to be invited, not to be thought of light heartedly.

Some people are of the opinion that the invitation needs to come from the conscious mind.
I am personally sure that many invitations are sent and answered on soul-level: unconsciously.
RSVP-ing on such a soul invitation to give support and attention to a person with a frightened and feeling (booby-) trapped suspicious conscious mind tucked away in a corner of that me-field, having no-clue how to deal with one or more charged mines, is not for the fainthearted.
It takes bomb proof courage and enormous sensitivity on energy awareness, quite some training and great devotion to that task, to see the joy in being part of such a bomb squad.

If you are not sure if you are at all consciously invited  as a close friend, acquaintance, relative ( or even as a perfect stranger!) , be sure: you aren’t.
If you are part of the bomb deactivating squad and are on another level invited to step in, trust me, you’ll know that that is the case, without a shadow of a doubt.

If you are not sure at all of what obvious action you can confidently take in such situation, these two things are safe options, where you are energetically not-turning-your-back to a person in need.
Do one (or two) of two things:

-           Gently feel into the willingness of the person for who’s wellbeing you care deeply, who is sending out increasingly stronger help-me-signals,  to see if they invite you. Put calmly the offer on the table. Only RSVP a conscious active personal invitation and behave then like a guest, with care.

-          Call the bomb deactivating squad: Ask the Universe to send the required help, simply in thoughts, with good intentions for all involved. Preferably: don’t share any information about this persons situation with obvious third parties, without this person knowing that you are doing that.

Back to being ‘ in’ and ‘ out’ at the same time, now in another possible way:

People talking to each other, might be an indicator for the existence of a we-field, but it doesn’t not at all indicate that any of them is actually in it as they speak.  

Mouths can talk while the attention is somewhere completely different.  In their respective me-fields, or pre-occupied with issues in other we-fields.....

Joy is usually felt when all involved are paying ‘full attention’ on what is relevant to the we-field they are mining at the time and everybody feels involved in the conversation. Keep in mind, that referencing the me-field is part of normal conversation: you are ‘in’ and ‘ out’ and ‘ in’ and ‘ out’ in sequence, to think, to listen, to process the information that is relevant to what is going on in the field.

A deep sense of intimate co-creative connection is felt, when all involved are not only paying full attention to mining the we-field, but are simultaneously being fully open to the respective me-fields... full openness, nothing to hide behind a fence. In and out, at the same time. Me and we, simultaneously, without losing any sense of self.

It is all quite fluid.