This blog post continues where I left of yesterday, where I
introduced the idea to change ( mental ) position looking at ‘ content’.
Let go of the idea
that you need to create the sensation of feeling content with what is in your
reality.
Adopt the idea that you need to be content(B), with what is in your reality... see: in the other meaning!!! Be content(B), be part of the data-set in your reality, complete with all your honest feelings and thoughts about it ( simply: more relevant data!).
Adopt the idea that you need to be content(B), with what is in your reality... see: in the other meaning!!! Be content(B), be part of the data-set in your reality, complete with all your honest feelings and thoughts about it ( simply: more relevant data!).
OK, so, that is the core idea. Now what?
Now it is time to actively partake in it, start playing with it all.
How?
It begins with actively reminding yourself of the (positive) meaning this whole dataset, with you in it, has in your eyes. That means answering the question:
“How can being here, in amongst this set of data, actually been viewed as a good thing?”
Keep in mind. In doing this, you don’t have to deny that you don’t
like all of it, in the order
it is presenting itself in right now!
You are not pretending nor denying anything, just shifting focus (for now).
The point of this part of the whole process here is to acknowledge that you got yourself here as a result of all the choices you made before today. There must have been good reasons for choosing these elements, otherwise you wouldn’t have chosen them. Even if you believe it was your loved-ones, teachers or society choosing these things ‘ for you’, there are reasons why you are invested in these very same things too.
The point of this part of the whole process here is to acknowledge that you got yourself here as a result of all the choices you made before today. There must have been good reasons for choosing these elements, otherwise you wouldn’t have chosen them. Even if you believe it was your loved-ones, teachers or society choosing these things ‘ for you’, there are reasons why you are invested in these very same things too.
List them, openly, honestly, as many as you can think of:
“I am here, in amongst this lot, because it provide(s/d) me with the joy of .......”
“I am here, in amongst this lot, because it provide(s/d) me with the joy of .......”
Making such a list, viewing the available data from within,
in a meaningful and positive light, relating it to the meaning they once had (and
maybe still have) to yourself, is
allowing the same set of data
produced by the creator (content-B) to be re-viewed in a semi-OK style (content-A).
That is the first step to happiness, like content ( B) is only a step into becoming information ( that selection of data that is meaningful for the end-user).
That is the first step to happiness, like content ( B) is only a step into becoming information ( that selection of data that is meaningful for the end-user).
Don’t stop here, if you desire to see significant changes!
Only looking at what is missing is just as ineffective as only focussing on the blessings.
Only looking at what is missing is just as ineffective as only focussing on the blessings.
You are now aware of all the keys ingredients: what is
missing and what you like about it and why.
Having both sides in mind, is allowing yourself to shift into the position with much more creative power, you are shifting now from the perspective of the end-user to the perspective of the creator.
Having both sides in mind, is allowing yourself to shift into the position with much more creative power, you are shifting now from the perspective of the end-user to the perspective of the creator.
These are two different roles
you have in the process of shaping your life: you are both creator of content
(B) and
end-user ( hopefully: content A).
It really helps to make a distinction between those roles.
As long a s you are confusing yourself with yourself, there is not much either of you sees they can structurally and meaningfully do.
Confusing?
As long a s you are confusing yourself with yourself, there is not much either of you sees they can structurally and meaningfully do.
Confusing?
Bear with me a while longer, I’ll explain that some more, comparing this with similar processes you are probably more familiar with: internet websites.
In information management (think database management for
websites), when you are a client/customer, you may have some adding-,
structuring- and changing rights on the users-end,
but you have no rights to change anything
in the structural order of the overall system!
Only those who log-into the database as a creator, can make any really significant structural changes to its structure and programs.
Only those who log-into the database as a creator, can make any really significant structural changes to its structure and programs.
As a consumer, you can’t change anything under the bonnet of ‘ Google’ , ‘
Amazon’ or ‘ Facebook’.
Yes, you are allowed to create your own account, change the look and feel, add information in your profile. Fine, jolly nice. You can feel very creative with the options given.
But you can’t add functionality to it that Google, Amazon or Facebook haven’t allowed you to.
Try changing a price for a book, try influencing the order Google shows results to others, try altering something on somebody else’s Facebook page.
It is not happening through the front door... you don’t have the creative rights to do so.
Yes, you are allowed to create your own account, change the look and feel, add information in your profile. Fine, jolly nice. You can feel very creative with the options given.
But you can’t add functionality to it that Google, Amazon or Facebook haven’t allowed you to.
Try changing a price for a book, try influencing the order Google shows results to others, try altering something on somebody else’s Facebook page.
It is not happening through the front door... you don’t have the creative rights to do so.
Even a developer working for Google/Amazon or Facebook, can’t
change anything structural entering the system using the customer entrance. They
need to go through the staff-entrance, to have access to their control panels,
in the back-office of the system.
They don’t need to leave their chair for it, they can use the same device for it... they just need to login differently.
They don’t need to leave their chair for it, they can use the same device for it... they just need to login differently.
The same principle applies in your own off-line life
creating exercise.
If you look at the appearance of data in your life as a non-content(A) (end-) consumer, ...... you are not in the right(full) creative position to make structural, significant changes.
There, in that position, you can see what is presented. You can have an opinion on what you like and what you don’t like. You might even have suggestions what would please you more.
However, unless you personally get ‘in’-volved with the fields where all the data are controlled and handled, you very objectively can’t see all the options to make it better. You don’t have access to the control panels of all of it and so you can’t make sustainable meaningful changes with structural integrity.
There, in that position, you can see what is presented. You can have an opinion on what you like and what you don’t like. You might even have suggestions what would please you more.
However, unless you personally get ‘in’-volved with the fields where all the data are controlled and handled, you very objectively can’t see all the options to make it better. You don’t have access to the control panels of all of it and so you can’t make sustainable meaningful changes with structural integrity.
That has nothing
to do with the fact that you are not pleased with the results, (being a human
or spiritual malpractice... doing something ‘ wrong’)
It has everything to do with the fact that you are not, under the bonnet, logged in as (co-)creator, who knows why this structure was made, knows the reasons why this composition is arranged like this, in favour of other possibilities.
It has everything to do with the fact that you are not, under the bonnet, logged in as (co-)creator, who knows why this structure was made, knows the reasons why this composition is arranged like this, in favour of other possibilities.
A creator also knows all the consequences of changing ‘ one thing’ somewhere deep in the structure. It often has consequences on many levels. As simple as it may seem on the users-end...... those structural changes need consideration and handling with care.
But if all the end-users complain structurally about something and give signals that they need different things, the (co-)creator is obviously more than willing to be at service and re-creates.
A (co-)creator does the necessary to evolve the system from 6.1 in to 6.2, or revolutionizes it in jumping from 6.2 to 7.0, if more drastic changes are necessary to be made. Usually, after testing the new routines, before putting them life, by the way.
Being in it now, acknowledging you are the creator, under the bonnet of the meaningful infrastructure of the data, you are now in a position to look around and see (and adjust) the order in it.
That is the only
position, where you have all creation
rights ( to your own creations).
This is where I have to put in a comment on my use of the deliberate use of the word co-creation . Usually (unless you are a hermit, living entirely away from everybody else) you’ve got various plug-ins running in your system. Pieces of programming more people are involved in (co-workers, partners, friends). Even though you are a co-creator of those programs, they’ll not appreciate it much if you make fundamental changes tothat without them being in the loop of your actions, preferably acting with their consent on the proposed changes.
This is where I have to put in a comment on my use of the deliberate use of the word co-creation . Usually (unless you are a hermit, living entirely away from everybody else) you’ve got various plug-ins running in your system. Pieces of programming more people are involved in (co-workers, partners, friends). Even though you are a co-creator of those programs, they’ll not appreciate it much if you make fundamental changes tothat without them being in the loop of your actions, preferably acting with their consent on the proposed changes.
Here is an illustration of what I said so far about positions.
The orange O is the mental position you take, relative to the data (X's) in your world.
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End-user perspective: looking at what is going on in your life from a distance, based on it's appearances. Not in a position to change it's structure. |
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Content (A): Logged in as being part of the content (B) Being aware of appearances as well as positive reasons for this (own) co-creation |
You are ' in' the content (B) state. Time to look at your control panel and explore your possibilities.
Moving from simply being in a content ( A+B) state to a happy and centered state:
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Centered: in the content heart of control |
More on that, in the next blog post.
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